Counting by 7s(4)

What were these kids thinking?

That first week while my classmates dozed off, I obsessively worried about the hygiene of the linoleum floor.

I can still hear Mrs. King, spine straight and shrill voice booming: “How does this book make you feel?”

She then made a few exaggerated yawns.

I recall looking around at my fellow inmates, thinking: Would someone, anyone, just shout out the word tired?

I had not uttered a single syllable in my five sessions as a student, and I had no intention of doing so.

But after days of hearing more lies from an adult than I’d been exposed to in my whole lifetime—everything from how fairies cleaned up the classroom at night to insane explanations for earthquake preparedness kits—I was at some kind of breaking point.

So when the teacher specifically said:

“Willow, how does this book make you feel?”

I had to tell the truth:

“It makes me feel really bad. The moon can’t hear someone say good night; it is two hundred thirty-five thousand miles away. And bunnies don’t live in houses. Also, I don’t think that the artwork is very interesting.”

I bit my lower lip and experienced the metallic taste of blood.

“But really, hearing you read the book makes me feel bad mostly because I know it means you are going to make us lie down on the floor—and germs there could make us sick. There’s a thing called salmonella and it is very dangerous. Especially to kids.”

That afternoon, I learned the word weirdo because that’s what I was called by the other kids.

When my mom came to pick me up, she found me crying behind the Dumpster in the play yard.



I was taken to see an educational consultant that autumn and the woman did an evaluation. She sent my parents a letter.

I read it.

It said I was “highly gifted.”

Are people “lowly gifted”?

Or “medium gifted”?

Or just “gifted”? It’s possible that all labels are curses. Unless they are on cleaning products.

Because in my opinion it’s not really a great idea to see people as one thing.

Every person has lots of ingredients to make them into what is always a one-of-a-kind creation.

We are all imperfect genetic stews.

According to the consultant, Mrs. Grace V. Mirman, the challenge for the parents of someone “highly gifted” was to find ways to keep the child engaged and stimulated.

But I think she was wrong.

Almost everything interests me.

I can be engaged by the arc of the water in a sprinkler system. I can look through a microscope for a shockingly long period of time.

The challenge for my parents was going to be to find friends who could put up with such a person.

All of this leads to our garden.

Mom and Dad said that they were looking to enrich my life. But I think one thing was obvious from the beginning: Plants can’t talk back.





Chapter 3





As a family, we threw ourselves into growing things. I have photos from the early trips to buy seeds and pick out young plants. I look insanely excited.

Early on, I adopted my gardening outfit.

It did not change over the years.

You could say it was my uniform.

I almost always wore a khaki shirt and a red hat for sun protection. (Red is my favorite color because it is very important in the plant world.) I had tan pants with built-in kneepads. And lace-up leather work boots.

This outfit was designed for practical reasons.

My unruly, long curly hair was pulled back and secured by some kind of clip. I had magnifying glasses (like the elderly wear) for close-up inspection.

In my garden, in this uniform, I determined (through chemical analysis at the age of 7) that the brown flecks that appeared on the backyard furniture were bee poops.

I was astonished that more people had not figured this out before.



In an ideal world, I would have spent twenty-four hours a day conducting investigations.

But rest is critically important for development in young people.

I calculated my exact biorhythms and I needed 7 hours and 47 minutes of rest every night.

Not just because I was obsessed with the number 7.

Which was the case.

But because that’s how my circadian rhythms were set. It’s chemical.

Isn’t everything?



I was told that I lived too much inside my head.

Maybe because of this, I haven’t done that well at school and I’ve never had many friends.

But my garden gave me a window into other aspects of companionship.

When I was eight years old, a flock of wild, green-rumped parrots moved into the fishtail palm tree by the back wooden fence.

A pair built a nest and I was able to witness the arrival of the parrot babies.

Each one of those little birds had their own distinctive chirp.

I’m pretty sure only the mom green-rumped parrot and I knew this.

When the littlest parrot was pushed from the nest, I rescued the tiny creature, naming him Fallen.

With careful hand-feeding that in the beginning went around the clock, I was able to parrot-parent.

When Fallen was finally strong enough to fly, I reintroduced him back to his flock.

It was incredibly rewarding.

But it was also heartbreaking.