His & Hers(7)
That doesn’t mean I have to tell the whole world about it.
Sometimes I think I am the unreliable narrator of my own life.
Sometimes I think we all are.
The first thing I remember is that I lost my dream job, and the memory of my worst nightmare coming true seems to physically wound me. I switch off the light—I no longer wish to see things so clearly—then lie back down on the bed, burrowing beneath the covers. I wrap my arms around myself and close my eyes as I recall walking out of the Thin Controller’s office, then leaving the newsroom mid-afternoon. I took a taxi home, feeling a little too unsteady on my feet to walk, then I phoned my mother to tell her what had happened. It was foolish, but I couldn’t think of anyone else to call.
My mother has become a bit forgetful and confused in recent years, and phone calls home only make me feel guilty for not visiting more often. I have my reasons for never wanting to go back where I came from, but they are better forgotten than shared. It’s easier to blame the miles for the distance that exists between some parents and their children, but when you bend the truth too far it tends to break. It sounded like Mum at first, on the other end of the line, but it wasn’t really her. After I poured my heart out, she was completely silent for a moment, then she asked whether eggs and fries for tea would cheer me up after my bad day at school.
Mum doesn’t always remember that I’m thirty-six and live in London. She frequently forgets that I have a job, and that I used to have a husband and a child of my own. She didn’t even seem to know that it was my birthday. There was no card this year, or last, but it’s not her fault. Time is something my mother has forgotten how to tell. It moves differently for her now, often backward instead of forward. Dementia stole time from my mother, and stole my mother from me.
Reaching back inside my memories for a source of comfort was understandable given the circumstances, but I shouldn’t have stretched as far back as my childhood; it’s a bit too hit-or-miss.
When I got home, I closed all the curtains and opened a bottle of Malbec. Not because I was scared of being seen—I just like drinking in the dark. Sometimes even I don’t like to see the me that I become when nobody else is looking. After my second glass, I got changed into something less conspicuous—some old jeans and a black jumper—then I went to pay someone a visit.
When I returned a few hours later, I stripped out of my clothes in the hallway. They were covered in dirt, and I was filled with guilt. I remember opening another bottle and lighting the fire. I sat right in front of it, wrapped in a blanket, gulping down the wine. It took me forever to warm up after being out in the cold for so long. The logs hissed and whispered as though they had secrets of their own, and the firelight cast a series of ghostly shadows that danced around the room. I tried to get her out of my head, but even with my eyes squeezed shut, I could still see her face, smell her skin, hear her voice, crying.
I remember seeing the dirt beneath my fingernails, and scrubbing myself clean in the shower before I went to bed.
My phone buzzes again and I realize that must be what woke me. It’s early morning now, still as dark outside the apartment as it is inside, and eerily quiet. Silence is a fear I’ve learned to feel, rather than hear. It creeps up on me, often lurking in the loudest corners of my mind. I listen but there is no sound of traffic, or birdsong, or life. No rumble of the boiler, or murmurs from the network of ancient pipes that try and fail to heat my home.
I stare at my mobile—the only light in the shadows—and see that it was a breaking-news text that woke me. The screen casts an unnatural glow. I read the headline about the body of a woman being found in the woods, and wonder whether I am still dreaming. The room seems a shade darker than it did before.
Then my phone starts to ring.
I answer it, and listen as the Thin Controller apologizes for calling so early. He wonders whether I might be able to come in and present the program.
“What happened to Cat Jones?” I ask.
“We don’t know. But she hasn’t turned up for work, and nobody can get hold of her.”
The little pieces of me I got broken into yesterday start to creep and crawl back together. Sometimes I get lost in my own thoughts and fears. Trapped within a world of worry, which, deep down, I know only exists inside my head. Anxiety often screams louder than logic, and when you spend too long imagining the worst, you can make it come true.
The Thin Controller asks more questions when I fail to answer the first.
“I’m weally sorry to wush you, Anna. But I do need to know now if possible…”
His speech impediment makes me hate him a little less. I know exactly what I am going to say—I rehearsed this moment in my imagination.
“Of course. I’d never let the team down.”
The tangible relief on the other end of the line is delicious.
“You’re a lifesaver,” he says, and for a moment I forget that the opposite is true.
It takes longer than usual to get myself ready; I’m still drunk, but it’s nothing some prescription eye drops and a cup of coffee can’t rectify. I drink it while it’s still too hot, so that it scalds my mouth; a little pain to ease the hurt. Then I pour myself some cold white wine from one of the bottles in the fridge—just a small glass, to soothe the burn. I head for the bathroom and ignore the bedroom door at the end of the corridor, the one I always keep closed. Sometimes our memories reframe themselves to reveal prettier pictures of our past, something a little less awful to look back at. Sometimes we need to paint over them, to pretend not to remember what is hidden underneath.